Mai Chisamba, thank you so much for your column. Please don’t get me wrong. I am a Christian and I go to church, I tithe. I am a father of three lovely children.
I love my wife, but my worry is mbuya vangu vakati ndakadyiswa. I was really shocked to hear her say this, zvanzi mai vangu vavakutadza kurara nenyaya iyoyi. Mbuya vakati vakazvibata kumapostori and this is the reason why my wife has an upper hand when it comes to finances.
I used to be a drunkard and irresponsible father, but my wife was so patient with me. Ndaidhakwa zvekungoitira even mumagumbeze, my wife would do the laundry silently. The truth is my wife has come a long way. I was an abusive husband, this is a true testimony and it’s coming from my heart. Zvese zvandaitadzira mumwe wangu ndakaregedza and I regret. I turned over a new leaf through my wife’s efforts and converted to true Christianity.
In our family ndainzi ndiri rombe asi zvese zvakapera. I will be very honest with you, Mai Chisamba, nyaya yekudyiswa inoita kuti ndiganduke. Zvanzi vakaudzwa kuti ndakadyiswa kapuppy kanga kasati kasvinhura that’s why ndapusa so. In our home we have a combined budget and my wife is in charge but we agreed because mazuva angu edoro anga ayeredza musha. Please help, should I confront my wife?
Could it be true kuti ini Mhofu yemukono ndakadyiswa kambwa? This is killing me.
Thank you for writing in and congratulations for turning over a new leaf, it’s very noble to do that.
It’s refreshing to hear someone saying they love their wife and kids. I rarely hear about this nowadays. This is how it should be all the time, that’s the normal thing.
Congratulations once more for a true and touching testimony.
Nhai Mhofu, muri kutyiswa kudya kahanda (puppy) kasina idi rinobatika imi maiitira ndove mumagumbeze, zvinotyisa ndezvipi?
You have turned over a new leaf, please don’t let anyone distract you again. During the bad boy era you wasted a lot of your kissing time and you were not there for your children most of the time.
These people crying foul today are the very people who used to call you names. Zano munotopangwa muine renyu. You say you converted to true Christianity and this means you and your life are in the hands of the owner of the universe, how come you are scared of kakutu? Makambozvibvunza here kuti vanamai vaitsvagei kumapostori? Is there any scientific evidence in this whole story? Why are they accusing your wife of this?
My advice is don’t sink to their level, you have done well, don’t look back wakabveko kumhunga hakuna ipwa. Pawainzi rombe, ndiani akamira newe?
Budirai mai nambuya kuti hamuchade nyaya dzekumashope-shope mave kunamata muidi nemuzvokwadi.
Love your wife and children, continue to be a born again responsible husband. — Good luck Mhofu