Here’s a little advice to all who want long, happy marriages.
Create a working formula on decision making and because you are the man and the head of the house, take decisions on bigger issues whereas your wife decides on smaller issues. Do not interfere in each other’s decisions.
Smaller issues like how many kids to have, the neighbourhood to live in, which car you should buy, how much money to save, who, when and where to visit, which sofa, cooker, refrigerator to buy, monthly expenses, whether to keep a maid or not, where to go forholidays, whose mum you should visit etc, etc, should be decided by your wife. Just agree to it.
Your decisions are only forvery big issues like whether America should attack Iran, the uranium enrichment in North Korea, whether Britain should liftsanctions against Zimbabwe, how to fullyexploit Africa’s economic and intellectual potential, whether KDF should leave Somalia, whether Arsenal needs to buy new players or change their coach, etc, etc. Your wife willnever object to any of these decisions and you will live happily!